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The Victory Sex position is a variation on missionary that is very easy to do and can really help achieve an orgasm. This is a great position if your man is on the smaller side of thing since it allows for very deep penetration. To get into this position, start from missionary position, then you will have to raise your legs up forming a letter V.  Push your hips in the air higher or get a pillow under your backside.This gives the guy a lot of room to move around. He can choose to get into a kneeling position while you stay in the V position. this way you can give yourself clitoral stimulation. You can choose this one as a finishing move, to heightened your orgasm.

F inding great sex positions that ‘hit the spot’ is great. Just as important is finding a rhythm that you enjoy and letting your man know about it. You might like it when he takes it nice and slow. You might like it when he fast like rabbit! Or maybe you enjoy a combination of both. What’s important is communicating this to your man. Rather than sitting him down with a pen and paper or showing him a spreadsheet & pie charts (joke!) of what you like, there’s a much easier way of letting him know what you enjoy and what gets you off. Just say it during sex. "Just like that" "Harder" "Faster!" "Slower" "Deeper!" It’s that easy. And 99.9% of men will happily comply! Then when he is in a good rhythm, make sure to praise him! Just like that. Keep going. Don’t stop.

Sometimes it’s nice when your man is aggressive and wants to turn you on as fast as possible…. The problem is that most men seem to think that this is the only type of foreplay. The other type of foreplay that he should try using is what I like to call ‘Teasing Foreplay’. The goal of Teasing Foreplay is to turn you on slowly and to tease you with sexual gratification. The premise of teasing foreplay is this: When he can tell that you are really enjoying something and getting closer to orgasm, he needs to start doing something else. Some people call this the ’2 Steps Forward, 1 Step Back Approach’. Here are some examples: When he can tell that you are getting closer to a climax as he is eating you out, he should stop and instead start to slowly caress your thighs with his hands and mouth. Then as you start to really get off to it, he should switch things up again to something like focusing on your breasts and neck. As he can see you getting heated up from that, he can then...

When you are deep throating your man in real life, you should start off giving him a regular blowjob, before slowly transitioning to giving him a deep throat blowjob. This is so that you can quickly transition back to the blowjob or even a handjob if you are uncomfortable with it. And what you see in porn is rarely ever going to happen men! Ladies don't think what he showed you on a porn movie once you need to immaculate.  Average and smaller men will have the advantage here I don’t recommend making a big deal out of it with your man. It’s actually better if you say nothing at all and just surprise him by giving him deep throat when you are fully comfortable practicing on say your dildo or something. That way there will be less ‘performance pressure’ on you to make sure it goes perfectly right. Now lets be honest most women are not into this, me included. don't get me wrong I like sucking a mans cock but gagging is not my thing. I'll do it on occasion but ...

If your having issues with traditional reverse cowgirl position. Whether it's because you just can't seem to get in the correct position, or maybe he's on the smaller side or his erection points to far up why not try having him lie back on a couch and you ease down on him with a coffee table to hold onto. This is a perfect example of changing up Reverse Cowgirl If this position is not work out try the couch position I mention. This is better suited for larger longer men.  

I have a question concerning veins on guys penises. For a long time now, I have noticed that my new boyfriend has very visible veins on his penis. On my past boyfriends and men I have seen there has been maybe one or two slightly visible ones but my current boo rather its a road map of them. He is thicker than other men I have dated and wondered if that was why. I don't feel any difference when we have sex other that he has a rather pronounced head, which I like. I was just wondering why some men have more veins than others. Dear Reader,   Ah yes, penis veins. They're completely normal and they may indeed change over time. The dorsal (top) side of the penis has a particularly large vein. Remember, these veins cause erections. Some people find them quite attractive and others do not. "Cosmetic" concerns are certainly a big deal when it comes to aspects of people's bodies that they would like to change. Still, it may be important if any of these veins are cau...

Sex sells, but we all knew that. What sells even more are sex toys! Who doesn't have a stash of goodies somewhere around their home, just barely out of hand's reach, for a fun time? Once something you could only find in a shady sex shop, sex toys are now pretty mainstream. So mainstream, in fact, that both Trojan and Durex have products you can pick up at your closest pharmacy.  The fact is, more people are bringing sex toys to bed, and they're not ashamed to do so. I am a big fan of sex toys. Either using them by yourself or even better with a partner. Even these female celebrities have come out about loving there sex toys. Actually, three quarters of us American women use a sex toy, to be exact.  Lady Gaga is known for her outrageous wardrobe and what one is complete without a vibrator or dildo? Whether she needs her toys to get her through the “Bad Romance” with “Alejandro” or simply because she was “Born This Way,” it’s there. Lady Gaga speaks of her wonderful ...

On Monday, I started answering a reader question about  what to do if you don’t find your husband attractive . The wife’s question went like this: Recently I’ve realized that I’m not attracted to my husband. I don’t think I ever was. He’s a good looking guy, but not my type of good looking. . . . I feel [guilty] and shallow, for being so upset that I don’t feel SOMETHING when he walks in the door, or when I spot him in a crowd of people. I see other men and sometimes I'm like wow he's hot! Even naked in my mind he's not much to look at.  Do you have any advice for me? I have to believe other wives are out there with similar stories. Maybe you wed your husband because he’s a great guy, a devoted, a wonderful provider, or the sort of guy you figured you’d marry, but he didn’t give you that heady sensation we often expect with love. Or maybe you were once very attracted to your husband, but now, not so much. Where are you supposed to go from ...