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I asked Dr. Nora Midnett with the National Institute on Aging to help me out addressing sex and aging as most of our women and male readers are over the age of 40 just as I am. Do "older women like and want sex?" I'm 42 and want it more than I ever have I can tell you that! ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Your sex life will change as your body ages. These changes can be addressed and you can have healthy, satisfying sex your entire life. By communicating with your partner, taking care of your health and maintaining a good emotional perspective, your sex life can grow richer with the years. Now that age barrier lines are also less prevalent mixing of ages between younger men and older women is more common just as older women have been seeing younger women for years. Don't let age stop you from being active. 1. Talk With Your Partner Open communication has always been essential for good sex. Talk with your partner about any sexual...

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We recently posted a position called the Butterfly but we had several women write in telling us about the Reverse Crab or Reverse Butterfly where there more well endowed men can get a longer stroke in if the women raises herself above the man. Although similar the man would no longer have access to play with the woman's breasts and since the women would be holding herself up she could not play with herself.

The most traditional version of the Doggy Style position is straightforward; the woman on all fours with the man holding on to the receiver's bottom or sides. Although Doggy Style is a huge hit with just about every guy, some women need time to open up to it due to the lack of face-to-face contact. That being said, once they do, they usually become big fans of it as well. This position does require some angle adjustment if one or the other is smaller or bigger than the other and the women may need to arch her back some. Small to average sized men should be good but still care needs to be taken on the depth of the thrust. Larger more well hung men need to communicate with the women to make sure the depth is good. There are many direct variations of Doggy Style, some of the more common are: Both partner's standing Lowering the receiver's chest so that it is resting on the couch or bed The receiver's chest on the bed, but their knees on the floor

I get asked about penises a lot, to small, to big, to hard (well... maybe not to hard) to soft, to crooked, to thin, to thick... and so on. Here is a question from one of our readers on having a man that's to big. Dear Sara The Sex Lady, I have encountered a problem I never expected; my boyfriend is quite simply very large. I am unable to perform oral sex except for the first couple of inches due to the girth, and vaginal sex is not totally satisfying for him because he is too long and cannot fully penetrate without causing me significant pain. I've seen my doctor, and am reassured that there is physically nothing wrong with me — no infections or scarring, but am finding it difficult to come up with a solution. Any suggestions? Too Shallow? Dear Too Shallow?, Contrary to the popular belief that "bigger is better," oral sex, anal sex, or vaginal intercourse with a particularly well-endowed man can present challenges and having one just crazy big is a fun sight requires...

An extreme form of the Rodeo position, the Butterfly is a very intimate transition from its more common cousin. The easiest way to get into the Butterfly position is to have the your man lie down on their back then the women lie down backwards from the rodeo position. This position although rear entry the thrusting is typically much more shallow. You may find small to average men may slip out easily, especially if the angle is not jut right. This is an excellent position for well hung men as it decreases the chances of thrusting to deep. One side note; unlike the Rodeo position, the Butterfly requires the man to take over stroking duties.

I had a lot of my women readers write to ask where the before and after naked men pictures are? I could not find where any study or photos where done using men, and even fewer pictures of "real" men before and after. I asked readers to submit what they had, so here it is. I think a photographer out there needs to help us out. Any takers?