My Multi-O drama by Ginger

For some women, having one orgasm during sex is enough to make them want to thank their lucky stars—or at least give themselves a solid pat on the back. But you might be surprised to know that if you can reach one O, you're probably capable of having lots more immediately after—or, as the pros call it, multiple orgasms. 

During post-dinner conversation with friends, several of them quipped 'Oh, he gave me multiple orgasms,'" she mused. "What exactly do they mean by that?" This led to a brief debate about whether "multiple orgasms" is commonly used to mean having more than one orgasm throughout the night or having more than one orgasm in quick succession.



As 3 of the women at the table went on about the time or times the men they where or had been with gave them multiple orgasms the other four of us looked bemused and said one was good but the multiple O had evaded us. Did they have better lovers?



The short is is possibly but not the case all the time. All's not fair in love and sex — at least when it comes to orgasms in the bedroom, or the lovers we end up with. Although women generally need more time to become sexually aroused than men, they possess a special advantage — multiple orgasms. Men can't enjoy multiples because their bodies need a “refractory period” to recover from orgasm, but the multi-orgasmic woman possesses the power to enjoy double o's or more, without limitations.

So is it the lover, the penis, the motion of the ocean? 

The main trick here is to not overstimulate the clitoris or the G-Spot, which is easy to do since it has over 8,000 sensitive nerve endings, double the nerve endings in the glans of a penis. 

Sometimes you may need an erogenous area rest, as it might be overly sensitive to stimulation, but then increase arousal again. In a sense it might be the lover but then it again it might be a lot of factors. 

Research shows that only 15 percent of women have actually succeeded in having double o’s. However, there's not a lot of data on multiple orgasms, which makes it difficult to study. 

Research published in Archives of Sexual Behavior found that out of 1800 women, 16 percent achieved multiple orgasms through self-stimulation, and 25 percent via intercourse. 

It was broken down even more with data such as the size of the penis of the male partner  - by the way most of the men had slightly above average penises in most cases but almost all of the same women said they had G-Spot and clitoral stimulation at the same time when having their multi-o fun. Which may or may not mean anything.

So, how can you become a multi-orgasmic woman?

We suggest practicing this by having your man help you reach your first multiple climax using his hands, mouth, or a vibrator, and then he should continue to stimulate your clitoral area in a slower way for 30 seconds, and resume at a normal pace to get to the second level of arousal while at the same time stimulating your G-Spot.. An orgasm can range anywhere from fireworks to the flicker of a candle; all contingent on how strong the pelvic contraction is and how long it lasts.

Women who lack the ability to orgasm should talk to their doctor. This could be physical or psychological and includes not being stimulated sufficiently, worrying about sexual performance, or problems with physical health, among other reasons. About two-thirds of women report sexual problems, with orgasm being the biggest issue.

Remember, multiple orgasms can become part of your bedroom repertoire for healthy women.