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I recently learned about the benefits of sexy toys for women's health not just orgasms when I sat down with a  clinical professor of obstetric. No seriously, they can help with hot flashes, night sweats, dryness, cramps, headaches, shifts in moods... women suffering from menopause are well aware of many of these symptoms. But one of the more embarrassing symptoms is  vaginal dryness . "Just like when women first get their periods, menopause is a big life change," said Dr. Mary , a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at New York University School of Medicine. "The lack of estrogen in the body decreases blood flow to the pelvic region. As a result, this can cause vaginal dryness and vaginal atrophy, or a weakening of the muscle tone in the pelvic area that can lead to sexual dysfunction and painful sex." Vaginal dryness is a common complaint for women during and after menopause. To treat the irritating and embarrassing problem, doctors...

Want a guy to excitedly go down on you? Want him to last longer in bed and make every possible effort to please you? There's an easy trick: just tell him you've never had an orgasm. I should know.  I've been the one to say it, many times. There's no greater aphrodisiac for any man with an ego than a challenging his ability to please you. The responses are surprisingly standard. Mention it to a male friend and he'll most likely offer to sleep with you. You know, just out of generosity.  Mention it to the guy you're becoming involved with and he'll make some derogatory comment about his peers and a macho promise about how he's going to have to fix that for you. For me, the unfortunate part is that it was true. I had never had an orgasm, and men thought I needed to be fixed. Women, too, for that matter.  Well-meaning friends would insist that I just wasn't trying hard enough, citing their own stories as proof of how easy it was. "But I...

What happens when you bang a really hot guy? There are symptoms that most likely occur when you meet a man who is really really ridiculously good-looking. And even though you know he’s going to be trouble, you are powerless to resist. Unfortunately, if the relationship ends or never progresses beyond a hookup, there will be a necessary recovery time from the hot body, chiseled body, sexy face, melting smile and off-course big wang! Your dating retinas (definitely a real thing) have been burned by hotness, and you can no longer properly see other perfectly wonderful guys. They will be unfavorably distorted by your ailing vision.   This sensation may feel similar to being offered a peanut butter and jelly sandwich the day after a five-course tasting menu at a Michelin-starred restaurant. It’s not that a PB&J isn’t delicious in its own way; it’s that your perception and taste are temporarily out of whack and nothing can compare.  It's like getting a can Vien...

Here's the only secret: You have to date a guy who loves eating pussy or has mastered it, since it seems most men are terrible at it! I don’t mean “like.” Every guy “likes” eating pussy. I mean what straight man wouldn’t be stoked to the eyeballs to see a naked vagina, let alone put his mouth over one? What I’m talking about is different. You want to find a man who eats pussy like it’s the last pussy he’ll ever eat; it’s that desperate and that necessary. This is coming from a woman who, in 37 years (or OK, maybe the past 18 or so years since I’ve actually been getting some), has never enjoyed receiving oral sex. I can hear your indignant eyeballs popping as you read this. I’ve suffered my whole sexually active life under the imploring words of other women, “But it’s so good, Kal, so, so very good!” Well lucky bitches, all of you, to have experienced the joys of being with a man who loves giving head, because until recently, I never understood the difference.Every man I’...

  If you have struggled with making your man last longer in bed, you are not alone. Most men finish sex too quickly, a condition also known as premature ejaculation. Such men are usually done in less than a minute, which is not enough time for a woman to reach her orgasm, as women take longer to reach their peak during sex. While this can be a frustrating experience for a woman, the good news is that there are things that can be done to fix the situation. Normally, you would think that your man does it out of selfishness. But the truth is that your man is actually embarrassed and disappointed whenever he shoots too early. He may even start avoiding sex, altogether, out of fear of disappointing you. So you are not the only one who is unhappy about the situation. Your man is equally frustrated. It’s amazing how men avoid sex because they know they will just finish too fast. The other thing to remember is you need to have sex more often. If you not in the sack enough this will...

If you are serious about experiencing as much pleasure as possible, then you absolutely must try using a vibrator to get yourself off. I love a good dildo but a vibrator can also provide some intense orgasms. Heck, that’s what we’re all about. But before jumping ahead and using one. Here are some simple tips to make sure you get the most out of it. I love my rabbit vibrator MAKE A GOOD CHOICE If you are serious about your pleasure, then I advise that you get a more ‘upmarket’ or expensive and well reviewed vibrator, like the Rabbit or the Hitachi Magic Wand. I prefer the rabbit with the rotating pulsing beads since it I get a vaginal orgasm and clitoral one at the same time. Most of the better vibrators have numerous settings that range from very soft and gentle vibrations, right up to intense and powerful vibrations, allowing you to change speeds to suit your needs. You may think that it’s smart to get a cheap vibrator even if it only has one setting, but I strongly adv...

Sometimes the state of your sex life is completely dependent on who your partner is, how good the sex is, and your experience level. But science doesn't agree with that. Science, like an old pay-per-minute fortune teller, believes it can predict the state of your sex life based upon a few arbitrary personal facts. One of those facts is, of course, the natural shape of your body. Big hips, well endowed, long legs? You may not agree with it, but science knows what your sex life is  really  like. SMALL BREASTS Studies have shown that men who like small breasts prefer submissive partners, are financially secure, aren't interested in fatherhood, and are less sexist than those who prefer large breasted women. Why do men sometimes prefer large breasts over the smaller sets? Big boobs remind them of motherhood, for better or for worse. I admit to liking my large boobies LONG LEGS No matter what gender you are, if you have long legs, people are going to ...

This is always hot topic. Pretty much, no matter what we say, every person alive wants to know these answers cause we’re all obsessed with a penis. Is it childish? fuck yeah. But trust me, this will be the most closely read Q&A on dick ever.  The Lovely Kristina Rose was cool enough to take the time and answer some questions on dick and , for that, I owe her a Mcdonalds dinner (I swear, that was what she wanted). If you had to pick, 5 inches and thick or 10 inches and thin? There’s two different types of girls. Girls that prefer fat and girls that prefer long. I’m more concerned with length than girth. But I have girlfriends that don’t like long dicks or skinny dicks. They’d rather have it short and fat. Basically, penis’s are to women what boobs are to men. Some guys like tiny perky, some guys like big and fake or big and real. Some girls like a lot of length. Some girls would rather have it short and fat. Me, I wanna feel it deep personally so longer is better. I li...