In America, it’s common to get married young without a lot of sexual experience. Oftentimes, people who marry young have had one to two partners prior to their spouse, and even in today’s landscape, it’s possible to marry your first lover. After marriage, sex becomes vanilla. And after children arrive, you get into parenting, and lose your sense of your sexual self and suddenly, divorce is thrust upon you and you’re left wondering what happened. There’s good news! You are now an experienced sexual partner and in demand! Yummy mummies and MILFs are overtaking internet searches and in high demand — and you have just become one! It’s time to take charge of your sex life — get comfortable with yourself again and get back between the sheets. 1. You can’t get over someone by getting under someone else. You’re excited about your new “single” status. But you’re not ready to take on the world until after you’ve taken some time to reassess. Get to know yourself inside and o