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The Worm Sex Position is the Missionary position with the man on top but facing the giver's feet. Getting into the position is a little trickier than usual. The woman lies back on the bed and has the man sit on top of them, but as the position will put the penis at an unusual angle from the giver's body (i.e. pointing downwards) it will be easier if the receiver inserts from a seated (facing away) position, and then carefully lays forward while sliding their legs back toward the giver's head. Care should be taken to not strain the penis further than it is comfortably capable of flexing! Most men may need to replax there erection to get in this position, but it provides a new angle for the women to watch her mans ass move and easy access to his balls.

This is a variation of Doggy-Style that due to the extreme body angles means that the penis is most likely too far away from the vagina for it to be practical; this position is therefore most suited for very well hung men or those who just want an adventure. The woman is on knees with the upper body lowered, ass up.The manfaces away and crouches over the receiver's rear end; pointing his penis at a downward angle and inserts and then thrustsback and forth. Position can provide a great deal of deep pleasure and G-Spot pleasure with right man.

To try the Frog Leap position the receiver squats or kneels on a bed or floor, like a frog, in front of their kneeling man who enters from behind. The woman should arch their back to give easier access, and the man should give a hand in supporting the weight as the position tends to lead to sore thighs for the receiver very quickly.

A great introduction to the world of rear entry positions, it is very difficult to find someone who doesn't have Spoons in their favorite list. To get into the modified spooning position, the receiver lies on their side with their partner entering from the top. Not only is this position very intimate, but the penetration angle is great for either g-spot. The man can typically hold the womens hips allowing him to pull himself deep into her.

A unique twist on the Standing Missionary position, the Dancer is a lot of fun if you are looking for something with more face-to-face contact. Both partners simply stand facing each other, the receiver raises one of their legs to give easier access while their partner helps support it. If the receiver is very flexible, you may want to try putting the raised leg onto the shoulder of the giver for an even more erotic experience. Can be a difficult position with varied height difference between couples, and slipping out can occure except for men of great length, although men and couples that know eachother well can master this position with ease. We think this position is more of a starter positon to get the night started than a marathon race.

For those who like to be in control, the cowgirl family of sex positions puts you in the right position... on top. Make sure to try out as many as you feel comfortable trying to figure out which feels the best! Facing eachother is the common start but we think you can experiment here. With this position many couples will find they can experiencing a lot of "slippage", with small or average size men. If this is the case then the women should try spinning around 180 degrees...

Women have the advantage when it comes to sex toys now., and I recommend every women have at least a vibrator and a dildo in the nightstand. So many choices are out there, from simple vibrators to dildos that feel like the real thing or in some cases better. Not sure what size you'll need? It's better to guess too small than too big. Even better, size things up at home with a zucchini, bannana or carrot before you buy. Girth is the primary measure of a dildo, as most dildos sold are longer in length than the average man. Most are at least 8 inches long so you have something to hold. If you have never used a dildo before we recommend a slim dildo, like the Basix Slimmer 7.5 Inch Dildo. And if you like the sensation move up gradually to something bigger, like an 8 Inch Realistic Dildo. Small vibrators 4 inches can be a good start also. Get Comfy. Dildo use works best when relaxed and comfortable. USE LUBE! The vagina works much better wet and slippery. It is easier to insert the...

Essentially a rotated form of the Spoons position, the Standard Rear Entry position is both hot and intimate. There are two main ways to engage in rear entry sex. The receiver can either have their legs apart (as shown here) and with their partner's legs between them, or they can have their legs almost closed with their partner's legs on the outside. Although the first method provides easier access, and therefore deeper penetration, the latter positions the penis at an angle for better stimulation of the G-Spot. The receiver's buttocks should be pushed up in the air, like a small hump. If entry is difficult, try placing a pillow under the receiver's pelvis. Also, while the giver is mounted on the receiver, the receiver can masturbate

We had a reader JillB say she prefers to pleasure her man while in this position and submitted an image. You are right JillB I myself have even done this modification more than once.

A variation on the Atten-hut position, Jack Hammer is performed by the receiver standing with their partner seated on the floor or lying down. The receiver moves up and down by flexing their legs, while the women performs oral and gives hand stimulation to the receiver's penis. Many men may becom to erect in this position to perform oral all that well. You can move on to sucking and licking the man balls while still performing a hand job on him.

Masturbation does not have to just be a solo sexual activity, it can also be a means of sharing pleasure with your partner. Many people enjoy watching their partner masturbate, and gain pleasure in return from performing this activity for their partner. It can be a thrilling way to start the night, or something you can both do while pleasuring each other Masturbation also allows partners with different sex drives to feel satisfied within the relationship. You or your partner can masturbate separately, or with each other, to relieve sexual tension and attain sexual fulfillment when the other is unable/unwilling to engage in intercourse or sexual play. Another benefit of masturbating together is showing your partner what you like. Most people who masturbate don't have trouble getting themselves to climax, and it never hurts for a sexual partner to see some other techniques for pleasuring the other. Unfortunately, many individuals have trouble masturbating in front of their partner....

It's not unusual for a man to slip out during the deed, especially when things get really hot and heavy. All you have to do is take his penis, put it back in and resume the action, even the biggest man can slip out if the play is getting fast. However, if it happens all the time, which can get kind of frustrating, it's probably because his member's on the small side, or he's thrusting a little too fast and furiously. In either case, you can best prevent "fallout" by having sex in positions that allow superdeep penetration, like doggie-style or missionary with your legs up on his shoulders. (Man-on-top is also good if he can't control his inner speed demon; simply grab his butt and force him to slow down.) While woman-on-top lets you maintain the tempo -- since you're in the driver's seat -- it's easy for him to pop out if you move up and down his shaft. So, if you use this position, try gyrating back and forth or in circles instead. Vaginal wet...

It is a well-known fact that men enjoy masturbation and virtually all men do it with some regularity. There is no maximum or minimum frequency at which you should masturbate. Masturbation is both physically and mentally rewarding and fulfilling. There are no negative side effects, especially the often-joked about 'making you go blind' or 'growing of palm-hair'! There are many different ways to reach a quality orgasm through masturbation and there is no 'right' way. Try different sensations and see how you like them. Some people enjoy the feel of a full grip, some enjoy using both hands, while others only like to use their thumb and a couple of fingers. Regardless of your preference, lubricants and sex toys like Vibrators & specific Sex Toys for Men (such as the well-known 'Fleshlight') are just a few things to experiment with to find out what you like best. For the truly athletic amongst us, consider the possibilities of Autofellatio ... the art of o...

For the women who likes to be in control or want to try something new, Eve's Ecstasy is a great oral sex position. The man lies down with their head on the bed or in some cases hanging over the edge of the bed (couch, love seat, dock, etc...) and then the women straddles their partner's face, the man can then masterbate while she gets pleased so she gets a good show. By varying the way you are sitting on your partner you can control the amount of stimulation and access, just make sure not to put too much stress on your partner's neck.

The Pump position has to variations the woman straddling a chair or leaning against a wall, with their partner crouching on the chair seat behind them or laying back againt chair, bed sofa whatever you can find. The receiver should stabilize herself and alolow the man to thrust inside her. Note: Make sure you use a good chair if you are not up against the wall!

Titty fucking is surprisingly easy, despite the fact that so few do it! It’s almost as easy as giving your man a handjob or giving him a blowjob. Before we go through this tutorial it’s important to know that titty fucking your man has many different names. Some call it giving him a camel jack off, breast masterbation or titty rub and there are probably hundreds more names for it out there. The basic action that you will be performing is putting his penis in between your cleavage. Once it’s in between your cleavage, you then need to push your breasts together to ‘trap’ his penis between your breasts to provide friction. Now your man can start to ‘fuck’ your breasts or you can move your breast up and down over his penis. Physically doing all this is easy if you have decent size breasts. Even small women can please a man, they just want to rub it on you. If you have large breasts and a small man get all his junk in there. The problem is building up the courage to do it and not being ne...

Easier to perform than its close cousin Amazon, but still not easy, this adaptation provides the receiver on top with some extra leverage and support because they’re on their knees, rather than in a squat. Thus, this position facilitates added positional control as well as endurance. Don't be fooled though, the receiver still gets a workout! The laying partner simply draws their knees open and back towards themselves. The other lover then kneels on either side of the giver’s buttocks and uses the back of the receiver’s thighs to adjust position accordingly. Finally, either partner carefully bends the phallus back for the receiver to climb on to. Lovers can enjoy a unique angle of penetration and have a great view of one another from this vantage point. Kneeling Amazon instils a sense of power and virility for the receiver, not to mention deep penetration and possible G-spot stimulation

Sometimes they are just horny and it feels good, but being diagnosed with premature ejaculation is different than just a man being horny. A diagnosed case is uncontrolled ejaculation either before or shortly after sexual penetration, with minimal sexual stimulation and before the person wishes. Most cases of PME the man ejaculates before he enters the women and many times before manual stimulation. Many other cases involve the man having just entered the women with only a few thrusts and he is done. It may result in an unsatisfactory sexual experience for both partners. This can increase the anxiety that may contribute to the problem. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common forms of male sexual dysfunction and has probably affected every man at some point in his life, most doctores will tell you PME occures in every male throughout there lifetime. What causes premature ejaculation? Most cases of premature ejaculation do not have a clear cause. With sexual experience and age, m...

Rear entry can have many variations, this is a good example sent in by one of out readers of how the Pearly Gates position can start with some good foreplay fun.

The Lap Dance (previously known as Reverse Mastery) position is one of the highest rated; it puts the receiver on top while keeps penetration mobility high and its rear entry while remaining very intimate. To get into the position, the receiver sits, facing away, on top of their sitting partner. The Lap Dance position is incredibly versatile, so make sure to experiment with it on other furniture... a few ideas to help get those creative juices flowing: a bed, stairs, or the edge of the bathtub. Very simple to do, the woman just sits down on the man and can move anyway she likes. Ideal for women you are having sex with small to average men as she has the freedom to move about as she pleases. Women may find this position less pleasurable with well endowed men as she was lift herself up to control penetration. This positon is nice as it allows man and women to touch other parts of eachothers body.

A variant of the Acrobat position, the Pearly Gates position is one of the favorite positions for intimacy. Unlike its close cousin, regular Rear Entry, this position offers incredible access to the receiver's chest and neck while offering a great penetration angle for g-spot. To get into the position, the man lies on a bed with their partner lying on top in line with them. There is easy access for the women to touch herself or her man as he enters her, and if your are into watching a man cum this is an ideal position for the women to pull the man out and finish the job on you with your hand. Note: since the receiver doesn't have very much leverage, movement is mainly the giver's responsibility.

To get in to the Folded Deck Chair position, the women lays on their back, pivots their hips so that their legs are on the giver's shoulders, (For the less flexible, the woman can pivot the hips lower to place the legs in the air, under the giver's shoulders) while the giver enters from a kneeling position while supporting some of their weight on the receiver's legs. A favorite of many men because of the sense of power that comes from folding their partner, the position definitely doesn't leave the receiver out. When the giver leans on the receiver legs, it improves the angle of penetration to better target the g-spot.

When learning how to finger your woman, you should know different techniques to try. There are many ways you can finger your woman to make sure she is completely satisfied and trial and error is really the key here, all women can be different. I know for me I prefer no more than a few fingers in me at a time, but girlfriends of mine can do three and four finger. I like it slow, while others like it fast. Make sure you ask and listen. Try using both hands. When you are fingering your woman, you usually only use one hand to insert the vagina while the other hand is left free. You can try using both hands to really please her. Try taking your other hand and rubbing her clitoris while you are fingering your woman. Try using different speeds with both hands. This will leave her feeling extremely pleased. Use the screw technique to finger you woman. Many times a woman gets tired of being fingered the same way over and over again. The screw technique is quiet different. You will want to sit...

Want drilled? why yes! To get into the Drill position, the women lies on her back and pulls her legs far back. The man then mounts high from above. Although it is very similar to the Missionary position, the raised legs make a significant improvement in the penetration angle as well as the intimacy of the position nad the viewing angle, making it a good first step for improving the sometimes monotonous starting position. It is possible in this position to excite the G-Spot with practive and does provide access for the women to touch herself or the mans shaft or balls.

The Missionary position is probably the most common first position people try, which is probably related to its simplicity and the high level of intimacy experienced. To get into the position, the receiver simply lies down on their back while their partner lies face-down on top of them. Although aiming can be a little difficult at first for the giver, it doesn't take long to master this arrangement and it's typical for the women to reach around and guide there man inside. Keep in mind this may be a nearly impossible position to hit the G-Spot in except for well endowed men, so this position is more for intimacy rather than deep pentration or strategic placement of his penis. One mistake that can be made is for the man to lift up when in this position. Although this is nice for a change or a peak as to what is going on down there, typically if the man stays close he is able to grind or rub against her clit which is an added bonus for the women. If the women would like to help he...

We get questions all the time still about penis size, so we asked Sara The Sex Lady who has plenty of experience to just help us out again. Before I start I will just upfront say I have probably slept with over 250-300 men, and yes I can tell you they come in all shapes and sizes, and no you can't figure out who's packin' and who's not reliably without dropping the pants. Seen them big on small men and small on big men, black and white it all is a guessing game. Why so many men? Well for those of you that don't know, when I was younger I made a bad choice to go into the prostitution profession. At 42 I have been done with that for many, many years, but sexually I have always been open. I now council those same girls, and I assist couples in sex therapy sessions. Before we get into this whole penis size debate, again I need women reading this to understand that most men, no matter what age frankly don’t know how to fuck! But... older men are usually better, and out o...

Talk about a lively way for her to get G-spot stimulation; the harder she goes, the deeper it feels! Wit some practice a women can easily get just about any size cock to rub her G-Spot. The easiest way to transition into Crab is by warming up in Arm Chair, though you'll find that Crab is simpler and less tiring to perform in comparison. The lover on the bottom ought to be laying back with legs stretched out in front. The partner on top should sit down in their lover's lap (facing) and allow them to lie back, so that the receiver can complete the final pose by positioning their legs on either side of their lover before placing their hands behind and onto the other's knees or to the side. The tricks to successful execution are: 1. to find a comfortable angle for the phallus; 2. achieving the right rhythm of the rocking motion; and 3. placing a bolster underneath the giver's knee to provide added support.

5 best foreplay tips for couples consist of all those sometimes overlooked approaches that will add a lot of spice to your relationship before you finally get on with doing the nasty. If you have any kind of trouble with getting into the mood with your girlfriend, you might want to try these foreplay tips to really get your blood flowing to the right place, if you get the drift. Talk Filthily. Talking filthy is the best foreplay tip for couples because it let's you role-play to a certain extent and also imagine what you and your girlfriend would do to each other—you know, when you're sick of the foreplay and are finally at the point of going at it like a bunch of unrestrained, lustful animals. Remember to always use obscene words for parts of your bodies so to increase the naughtiness of your pre-sex foreplay-chatfest all the more. Lend Yourselves a Hand. Forcing your girlfriend to shove her hand down your pants in casual situations and settings, such as when the two of you a...

This type of oral for many women is not acceptable, you need to be ok with the submissive nature of this act. However this can be very exciting for a man and many women still feel this is an erotic form of foreplay. The Fuck Face version of fellatio is similar to the Plumber but has the receiver kneeling upright, with the giver holding the womans head with his hands. The giver performs oral thrusting in the womans mouth. The receiver can carefully thrust in and out of the giver's mouth also while also carressing and exploring their partner's body. Many women will play with a mans balls or ass in this position. Forefully holding his bulls can be a turn on as this position is about power. Care should be taken on the mans part not to thrust to deep as to gag the women, and if the man plans to ejaculate in the womens mouth in this position he must take care has to cum in the out stroke and give a signal to the women since she may not feel the pulsing of his penis before orgasm if ...

The modified Prison Guard position has the receiver lying down over preferably on a couch or bed, but with the receiver's wrists pulled back and held by the giver (as if cuffed together). The women would spread her legs wide apart for the man as he straddles her and leans back. In this position he pushes his pelvis back against the giver allowing extreamly deep penetration, but is otherwise less intimate than the regular Standing version. For variation the receiver should try spreading their legs apart or bringing them together. However, the farther the legs are spread the deeper the giver is going to have to squat to gain access; say hello to burning quads. The women needs to be fully comfortable with a domination position and trusting her partner does not thrust to hard. This position is not recomended for anyone that is not semi athletic. If you are on the larger side or your man is this position not not control depth very well and could be painfull.

If you and your partner have struggled with slipping out, which can occure in the Cowgirl position with less endowed men, then the Rodeo should reduce this irritating occurrence at the possible expense of clitoral stimulation. In a nutshell, the Rodeo position is simply Cow Girl with the receiver facing the opposite way the receiver. Although the receiver no longer presents their breasts / chest to their partner for easy access, they provide great access and a great view to the receiver's rear end. Also in this position the women can sometimes sneak a peak from below of all the action!

This is a great way to transition into Ben Dover – the standing partner won't even have to move a muscle! Starting upright in a semi-squat position, the standing partner bends at the waist, and touches down to the ground with their hands, carefully bending the head back between their legs to orally receive their lover's penis. Don't forget to bend your knees; this will alleviate strain at the joints. The receiving partner is seated on the ground with their legs fully extended in front of them. (The woman can squat also if needed and lean her vagina into his face if you are on a bed as seen in the animation) If flexibility is an issue, or the pose proves to be too intense for the standing partner, they can position themselves in a similar manner to Doggy Style - Standing, utilizing a chair for support. If this is the case, Face Off loses the 69 aspect, so the standing partner may want to pay the giver back with some personal attention in return.

The 69 Sex Position is considered one of the best oral intercourse positions as it allows both partners to stimulate each other at the same time. Since the smaller partner may not enjoy having a substantially larger partner on top, in the standard form of 69, as in the video animation, the male is below. The inverse is true of the inverted 69. The most difficult part of this position for the women might simply be that if the man is extreamly erect or hard it may be difficult to lift his penis up enough to get it in your mouth.

Think he’s all about the wham, bam, thank you, ma’am? Pull his pants down and he's ready to go? Although as you women might know that cock might already be hard and ready to go when he drops his pants, you couldn’t be more wrong. Men love foreplay just as much as women, and many men need it more as they age. Read on to find out what he wants from you before he gets to the main course. Alright ladies, time to bust a man myth -- it's not just about getting you in bed. While this goes against everything you've ever known about men, it's true! Guys love -- and need -- good foreplay. It leads to better sex for both men and women, and let's face it, it's also a lot of fun! So, what do guys want from the pre-game? Let him see you Men are visual creatures. He loves your bod and wants to see it as much as possible. Let him watch you undress, and maybe even put on a little strip-tease show. Watching what you're doing and seeing you enjoy yourself is a huge turn on -...

A handjob is not as easy as you think and before you go yanking away on one ore two weenies there are some things to keep in mind. If you still think that sex is all about pumping away between your bed sheets during the act, think again. There’s a myriad of other sex techniques which will enhance your sex life and give each other the ultimate pleasure. For women, giving men a handjob is probably a skill that they are not too familiar with. Most of them fumble through the process while learning how to give a handjob. Otherwise, their grips are too limp, too tight, the pace is not something that men would like – in short, their techniques really need to be worked on. Now, if you want to return the favor and be good at giving your man some love through manual masturbation, read the following guide to know exactly how you should go about doing it. Step 1: Familiarize Yourself With His Penis The first rule if to familiarize yourself with his penis – its length, girth, shape, whether it is ...

From time to time we will post reader submitted photos and art that we feel is erotic and creative. Thanks to JillB for this peep show animated gif!

We though we would throw in another Love Triangle animation how to since this position is our most popular here and a favorite of ours!

This position takes on several names, but the Love Triangle is the Kama Sutra translation, and it's once of your readers favorites and ours. When it comes to sex, most people think about regular missionary position. But, the regular missionary position does not make fabulous sex as it requires efforts to maintain stability and proper alignment. At such, it can distract you from pleasure and sensation. For men who are average or maybe not at all well endowed, we highly recommend this position as it provides deep penetration for the women. The woman lies down and rests both legs on shoulders, his chest or the man can hold her legs or feet together to narrow the vagina. The man holds her hips and enters from front. The position allows direct hit to G spot and makes man feel huge and is a near guarantee on giving her a lot of pleasure.

With regular Spoon position, penetration is shallow. Thus, it is not really ideal for small situations, if you know what we mean. However, you can compensate by adding special orgasmic spin with a modified version called "Downwards Spoon". Here's how: the woman lies on her stomach and raises her hips in the air for ease of penetration, she start out in the traditional spooning position with her legs apart and on her side. As the man enters from behind, the woman draws her legs close together to create snug fit, and the man should slightly thrust down instead of directly from the side. The position allows your penis to stimulate G spot and hard-to-reach erectile nerve endings of vagina. Also, it makes you feel bigger and tighter. Hot tips: to intensify orgasmic response for both partners, bend your body forward and thrust in back and forth, or side by side motion. As well, you can use your fingers to stimulate her clitoris for more sensation. Article Source: http://EzineAr...

The crouching dragon position is a give and take position. Almost like a traditional doggy position where the women is bent over, however in this position the women lifts her ass way in the air and the man does not hold onto her. He should give control to the women as she move her man's penis in and out of her while supporting herself up. The man is not to thrust in this position and the women controls the depth. The women must know the length at which to move her hips as it can be easy for small to average length men to slip out. Done correctly however a women can move into a position to show her man where her G-Spot is and train him to hit it.

The Bodyguard is a Spooning position with all the intensity of 'Doggy Style', the connectivity of a side-by-side position, and the eroticism that comes with the uniqueness of all of the standing positions. To get in this position, the receiver simply stands in front and is penetrated from behind. This position is especially good in allowing the giving partner access to touch and caress the other's body, so make sure to keep those hands occupied! The only difficult part of this sex position is aligning the genitals which can be quite a problem for some couples. If the man has a long penises this position may be easier, than a man that is average or small in length, but a height difference can still be a challenge. The easiest fixes are: standing on a stair, foot stool, couch cushion or, if you are up to it, maybe some heels. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Tip's from our readers: RawKitty ...

The Bodyguard is a Spooning position with all the intensity of 'Doggy Style', the connectivity of a side-by-side position, and the eroticism that comes with the uniqueness of all of the standing positions. To get in this position, the receiver simply stands in front and is penetrated from behind. This position is especially good in allowing the giving partner access to touch and caress the other's body, so make sure to keep those hands occupied! The only difficult part of this sex position is aligning the genitals which can be quite a problem for some couples. The easiest fixes are: standing on a stair, foot stool, couch cushion or, if you are up to it, maybe some heels.

The Missionary position is probably the most common first position people try, which is probably related to its simplicity and the high level of intimacy experienced. For the modified standing Missionary position, the receiver simply lies down on their back while their partner kneels or stands while entering her. Although aiming can be a little difficult at first for the giver, it doesn't take long to master this arrangement and visually the male can see everything and the women has easy access to please her clitoris or for the man to play with her. An easy postion for small all the way up to large men, this posion can provide great stimulation if the man is willing to learn how to use his hips to thrust and not just his legs.

A variant of the Acrobat position, the Bent Spoon position is one of the favorite positions for intimacy, but there are requirments on the man's part a women needs to understsand before getting there man in this poition. Men need to have the strength to hold the women up to some degree, and men with small to average penises may find it difficult to keep there penis from popping out, as several inches of length is lost with the unusual angle. This is a great position for well hung men as the penetration level is much less. However pulled of succesfully this position allows both the man and women easy access to play with the womens breasts and vagina. Unlike its close cousin, regular Rear Entry, this position offers incredible access to the receiver's chest and neck while offering less penetration angle. To get into the position, the giver lies on a bed with their partner lying on top in line with them, facing the same way and with knees bent. Note: since the receiver doesn't...

The receiver kneels down on the bed and lets their upper body lie on the bed with their knees bent and their ass up in the air. By spreading their knees apart they can adjust the height of their ass to line up to their partner. The penetrating partner kneels behind, facing the same way, and penetrates from behind. They can keep their hands on their partner’s hips or ass,. This common variation is has the man lean back, while the women bring her leg up and for the man to hold her ankle or leg. This provides some addition leverage for the man to thrust with. Variations: •If the receiving partner positions themselves at the edge of the bed, the penetrating partner can stand on the floor instead of kneeling on the bed. •You can also do this position in a big soft chair, where the receiving partner kneels on the seat and has their upper torso over the back of the chair. •The receiving partner can use their forearms to prop themselves up into a regular doggy style position. •For more sup...

There may be few questions of human sexuality more rancorous than those about the female orgasm. Scientists agree that women probably started having orgasms as a by-product of men having them, similar to how men have nipples because women have them. As Elisabeth Lloyd, a philosopher of science and theoretical biologist at Indiana University put it in her 2005 book The Case of the Female Orgasm: Bias in the Science of Evolution: “Females get the erectile and nervous tissue necessary for orgasm in virtue of the strong, ongoing selective pressure on males for the sperm delivery system of male orgasm and ejaculation.” But why we ladies still have orgasms is hotly debated. Male orgasms exist, it’s widely believed, to encourage men to spread their seed. On face value, it would be easy to say that women orgasm for the same reason: to encourage them to have sex and make babies. But in practice, compared to male orgasm, female orgasm is very difficult to achieve. There's a lot of variation ...

Pleasuring your man manually — whether it's a prelude to penetration or an erotic act in itself — is an incredibly sexy sack skill that's often overlooked. When you and your man are fooling around, have him lie on his back and straddle his thighs. Then, gently rub some water-based lube on his penis. To perform the basic hand job, firmly, but gently, wrap your fingers around his member and move your fist up and down his shaft in a slow,steady motion. Variety is one of the key ingredients to a moan-worthy hand job, so mix up your speed and pressure as his arousal grows. Don't forget to pay special attention to the super-sensitive corona (the ridge where the head meets the shaft) and frenulum (the thin ridge that runs the length of the underside of his penis). Periodically massaging them with one or two fingers will make him swoon. You'll also want to try using both hands in tandem -- think of it as doubling his pleasure. To give him an incredibly erotic two-hander, form a...

Easier shown and said than done! It's all about the height and the angle. Men that are tall are going to have a challange, and men that are short will have the same, although if you are short a few books and strategic props can help! Standing Doggy Style is easier on the knees than traditional Doggy Style, and still provides the same perks for both female and male partners. This is another fun “animal” style sex position, because all you have to do for a quickie is pull your pants and underwear down! How To Do It Standing Doggy Style is a little bit easier on the knees than traditional Doggy Style, mainly because both partners have their feet on the floor instead of their knees. This does require some kind of prop, like a chair, couch or bed, but it’s relatively simple to do. While standing, the female partner bends at the waist and places the palms of her hands on the chosen prop. The male partner enters her from behind, standing the entire time. This position can be a lot of fu...

It's not a postion we are talking about in this post, but the foreplay before. We hear from many couples that tell us they just head to the bedroom, turn off the lights and screw! Remember forplay does not have to be about touching at all! When was the last time you where just naked around each other not in the sheets? Have you just looked at eachothers bodies lately? How about subtle notes or words as the day goes on? Our female writers who are married suggested that to really get them in the mood, they have there husbands do the dishes and laundry in the nude.

threesome rule no. 3 Keep yourself busy When you find that both women are busy pleasuring each other and you have nothing to do, keep yourself busy. Take matters into your own hands and find something to do. Caress the breasts, thighs or vagina(s) of one or both women, kiss their backs or necks, or give oral sex to one if she's in a position that allows you to (believe us, this will redirect attention toward you in a hurry). If you decide instead just to pleasure yourself for a little while, don't feel bad; the action will come back to you soon enough. threesome rule no. 4 Be careful with penetration Penetration is what novelist Tom Robbins calls "that old show-stopper." It automatically forms a serious bond between you and one woman, leaving the other out. For this reason, penetrate only when you're sure both women are comfortable with it. Your natural inclination will be to pay close attention to the woman you're having sex with, but you mustn't ...

We have been asked many times to post some images and guides on threesomes. We figured we should start with some background information first. Considered by many to be the ultimate male fantasy, it's just as popular with women and threesomes have a long and storied history on the silver screen. From the steamy bedroom acrobatics of Denise Richards and Neve Campbell in Wild Things to the graphic sex displayed in Sunday, Bloody Sunday, many a savvy director has packed a theater with a well-executed menage a trois. Although the appeal of threesomes is obvious, executing one of these sexy trinities is easier said than done.. Whether you're seeking advice on how to pick the right girl, how to broach the topic with your significant other or the positions you should try. One thing to consider, while most men may have the fantasy of threesomes, with two women on them, and even having some fun with a buddy and a lady friend, the thought of being naked with another man, and that man brin...