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What a MFM Threesome is really like


It seems that men aren't the only ones with a threesome fantasy.

New findings from the Journal of Sex Research found the two categories of porn that both men and women like watching is threesomes and oral sex.

Threesomes consistently top the 'fantasies for women. Being ravaged by new men at the same time or having them take turns pleasing a women is at the top. But there's an enormous difference between watching one online and having one in reality.

Of all the fantasies couples choose to act out, inviting another person into your bed is the one most guaranteed to go wrong – and most likely to have negative effects on your relationship long-term.



THE 12 REASONS WHY THREESOMES GO HORRIBLY WRONG

Jealous

The obvious, most glaring reason threesomes backfire is that couples who love each other usually have a hard time seeing their partners with someone else. Even if there is not a love thing going on between two of the people, most of us are pretty territorial about relationships and our partners and not used to sharing them. Especially men! Men are naturally territorial. So when the biggest dick in the room (This time figuratively) wins over the girl there can problems. 
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No matter how much you've imagined it, you can't really prepare yourself for what it feels like to watch someone else kiss or touch someone

Threesomes are awkward

The fantasy and reality are usually miles apart because things always go a lot smoother in our heads than it does in the bed.

No-one really knows who's supposed to do what to who or when when you first have a threesome.

Polite couples can find it turns into a: 'No, you go', 'No, no, you go'. Meanwhile, the third person's rolling their eyes and examining their nails.

Eveyone feels self-conscious

Sure, you've made love before but you've not had three people trying to please everyone and themselves. They've felt what you do but not seen what you do: what if you look fat/silly/decidedly unsexy? And what if the third person thinks that killer signature sex move is rubbish? Will they then think you're bad in bed?

Performance anxiety is common for both men and women – especially if you're not terribly experienced.


No one wants to be the one doing all the work

Image result for Two Cocks Threesome GIFMost of us cast ourselves in the taking role when we imagine a threesome. And get a bit put out when we realize this isn't necessarily the case. Inevitably one of the men will outperform the other and again there is that awkwardness. 




He can't rise to the occasion

Men often feel under so much pressure to perform with one women and can't get an erection at all add in another man to compete with and it could be a boner killing mood for not one maybe maybe both men. Their sexual confidence is shattered to smithereens (What on earth does he tell the lads?) and the ramifications can be dire.

She seems to like it a little too much

Men often fare worse in threesome for lots of reasons. Lesbians consistently rate highest for the group most happy with their sex life. Watching your wife, girlfriend or lover have more - or more intense orgasms - with a man than she's ever had with you is another nail in the coffin of sexual confidence. Even if it's casual if he is pleasing her better then one man is left out in the rain.

Three is an odd number

There's three of you in the bed, not two or four, so one person will sometimes feel left out – and start getting paranoid. With a MMF (Male, male, female) scenarios like we are suggesting a lot of times one man may have to sit in the side lines. 

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Do they fancy the new person more than you? Are they enjoying themselves more with them than they do with you?

Is this person better in bed? Is the new person acting like your partner's the best thing in bed since the vibrator?

Catch a glimpse of chemistry between the two of them that's missing in your relationship and suddenly it's not half as much fun. Lots of people are well aware of this and find themselves inhibited for fear of upsetting their partner.

And if you can't let loose and enjoy yourself, what's the point?

You're drunk

Lots of people end up in a threesome drunk or high on drugs; both can work wonders to reduce inhibition.

Trouble is your judgement – crucial in situations like this – disappears faster than your clothes.

The ability to 'read' your partner – who may be less into it than you are – is fatally flawed.
Sometimes people keep going out of sheer 'politeness' or because they think their partner's enjoying it and might get annoyed if they stop.

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You both need one eye focused on your partner the entire time – especially if it's your first time – to check they really are fine. If you're seeing six in the bed and having trouble focusing on anything, you're in trouble. It can be fun for a woman but be prepared for some drama in most cases. 

Someone gets blamed

If the experience wasn't great, someone always gets blamed. Even if you everyone came up with the idea together (which rarely happens, by the way), it's a natural human instinct to want to take it out on someone. This might be you or your partner – either way, not huge fun.

Someone is better and desire kicks in

If the threesome was with men you know, any future contact could now been seen as a desire for a repeat performance or awkward. Some women do fall in love with the third party and ditch their partner for them. It doesn't happen often but it does happen, particularly if the person is a friend.

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Lots of people feel guilty, cheap or disgusted with themselves afterwards. Sometimes, those feelings kick in during it: once you've had an orgasm, your mood can very quickly change from sexy to sordid.


Surely safer to stick to a twosome, which is far more likely to produce a post-coital glow rather than post-coital cringe!

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