Women are pleasure oriented not goal oriented. The vaginal orgasm is here! Not just one sensation -- it is a symphony of pleasure that arrives from stimulating the vagina.
Described as a “deep and whole-body” sensation, the definition of a vaginal orgasm is an orgasm that originates from vaginal penetration alone (without external clitoral stimulation).
Compared to the easily attainable clitoral orgasm, only 30% of women report that they regularly have a vaginal orgasm without clitoral stimulation.
But the vaginal orgasm is having a bit of comeback of late. As we learn more about the richness and complexity of the vagina, we realize just how much potential it has to give endless orgasms.
Every woman is wired differently, with more (or less) nerve fibers hooked up to the pleasure zones -- clitoris, G-Spot or cervix. The main key to having a vaginal orgasm is knowing and understanding how you are wired to get vaginal pleasure.
Most vaginal orgasms the deep tissue kind are going to come from some experimentation and most women say it can only me obtained with toys. One you have mastered it with a toy some say they can then guide there man into the right position to provide a similar sensation with him in her, however most men's members are not going to be long enough or thick enough to properly massage these areas consistently, as it could be 7-9 inches deep inside the vaginal opening.
Unless you have a man with one of these, get yourself a good dildo with good size and experiment with yourself and your partner.
The dildo is the best way to explore your vagina’s deep tissue sensitive spots without putting pressure on your partner to get an erection, keep one for long periods of time and its easier to maneuver a dildo around.
It is important to find a dildo that has enough length to reach the cervix and be thick enough to put pressure on the vaginal walls. This will vary with each woman. Length is required for vaginal orgasm that originates in the cervix. Girth will force the lips wide open in the first section of the vagina, and stretch the walls along the way down the vagina including the anterior vaginal wall A larger dildo 9-10" long or more with significant girth will help. A slight curve would be helpful also to focus stimulation in particular areas directly. Make sure you have enough length to penetrate deep and to hold onto to.
A Penis:
The goal for many women when they think of vaginal orgasms is the penis. Penis size and position will make a difference to vaginal orgasms, so we recommend a dildo for experimenting. As you move the dildo all the way inside, you will be stimulating the sensitive cul-de-sac of the vagina and cervix. This is the opening area deep inside the vagina you are looking for. You want to thrust deep will the dildo and slightly twist and hold. Thrusting allows you to stimulate all of these pleasure zones at the same time. Like I said you will need to experiment with your partner or by yourself before mastering a Deep Vaginal Orgasm.
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