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10 Tips For Sensual Bondage

10 Tips For Sensual Bondage

These 10 tips for sensual bondage will help you have a more enjoyable and pleasurable time. They are all great tips to follow to ensure you and your partner(s) experience bondage safely and in new fun ways. Consider these tips and you won't regret it.

Safety Word: Even light S&M needs a safety word so you and your partner can help make sex safe. Keep in mind that even sensual bondage can get painful. Whether you choose "no" or "watermelon," find a word that will help both of you know when to stop.

Light candles: Candles never fail at setting the mood as sensual. If you want a more romantic mood for your bondage play, you should definitely consider lighting candles. Try displaying them at safe distances from being knocked over by you and your partner.

Be tender: Having a tender touch is a great start to making bondage sensual. Aggressive slapping/hitting usually transforms bondage as more hardcore. Therefore, use a soft and loving touch to make your bondage play romantic.
Do not tie your partner too tight: Whether you're using rope, linen, or chains, do not tie your partner too tightly. You don't want to hurt them and you want to try and keep things comfortable. You may want to practice ahead of time to see what level of tightness is best.

Play soft or romantic music: If you want to transform bondage into a calming sexual act, play tranquil sexual music. This tip will definitely reward you when you find your bondage experience is far more enjoyable. Romantic can really set the mood and make bondage a loving experience.
Be creative: You may want to combine other sex play with bondage. Consider fusing role playing, humiliation, or teasing with bondage. Combining other sex acts may make bondage even more exciting.

Whispering: Whispering is a great way to both tease and please. This soft tone will be both sexy for your partner and will help retain the romantic mood. What you say is up to you.

Tie to objects: You may want to tie your partner to objects to liven up the experience. Choose from poles, bedposts, or even other people. This can really bring the experience to a new level for you.

Respond to your partner: Be sure to remain attentive to your partner the whole time. Listen to their emotions and respond to their feelings. If you feel they aren't enjoying themselves, then be sure to stop or change your tactics.
Gentle: Be sure to be gentle. Kissing rather than biting may be the way to go. Keeping the moment sensual may just center around your gentle loving response to your bonded partner.

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