Skip to main content

Do men need foreplay?

Do men need foreplay?

Think he’s all about the wham, bam, thank you, ma’am? Pull his pants down and he's ready to go? Although as you women might know that cock might already be hard and ready to go when he drops his pants, you couldn’t be more wrong. Men love foreplay just as much as women, and many men need it more as they age. Read on to find out what he wants from you before he gets to the main course.


Alright ladies, time to bust a man myth -- it's not just about getting you in bed. While this goes against everything you've ever known about men, it's true! Guys love -- and need -- good foreplay. It leads to better sex for both men and women, and let's face it, it's also a lot of fun!


So, what do guys want from the pre-game?


Let him see you


Men are visual creatures. He loves your bod and wants to see it as much as possible. Let him watch you undress, and maybe even put on a little strip-tease show. Watching what you're doing and seeing you enjoy yourself is a huge turn on -- so, if you do one thing for us, leave the lights on.


Kiss him like you mean it


Men like to be kissed. Not just the "Have a nice day, honey" peck you send him away with each morning. More like the "I've gotta have you now," passionate lip lock. Kiss him hard, and with your whole body. Press against him, grab his butt, touch his face and pull his hair while kissing him. Guys love it when a woman's kiss tells him exactly what she's thinking about doing to him.



Love us all over


Contrary to popular belief, it's not all about his member. Yes, the penis is his number one erogenous zone, but the rest of his body likes to get in on the act, too. Start your man off with a massage, then stroke his chest with your nails and nibble his earlobes. Surprise him with touches, grabs and pinches from head to toe. You'll be surprised at what makes him moan the loudest.


Take charge


There's nothing sexier than a woman who knows what she wants in bed. Make the first move. Tell him what you want him to do. Better yet, show him what you want him to do. Don't be afraid to move his hand, or his whole body, to where you want it. Get on top. Be a little ballsy -- your man will love it.



Play rough


Guys are not delicate flowers. Men like to be manhandled. We're not talking about being slapped around (although some men do find that move irresistible), but many guys enjoy a little force. Put on the pressure when you massage him, and grab a hold of him with all you've got. Grab his ass like you mean it, and jack him off like you know how to handle it! Don't worry, he's strong enough to take it, and he loves that you know that.


Talk dirty


When guys say women talk too much, they don't mean in bed. Not only do guys want to see you, but they also want to hear you. Tell him what you want, and throw in a dirty phrase every now and then. Don't worry about being too raunchy -- he'll win that game every time. Don't lie about it, but yes men want to hear about how you love that cock, if it's big tell him, if it's not you can say things like "You are so hard!". Don't be afraid to moan and make some noise, too. It tells him he's doing something right, and if he is let him know, tell him how to stick it and lick it, and that's the best sound in the world.

Labels:

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

What a MFM Threesome is really like

I t seems that men aren't the only ones with a threesome fantasy. New findings from the Journal of Sex Research found the two categories of porn that both men and women like watching is threesomes and oral sex. Threesomes consistently top the 'fantasies for women. Being ravaged by new men at the same time or having them take turns  pleasing  a women is at the top. But there's an enormous difference between watching one online and having one in reality. Of all the fantasies couples choose to act out, inviting another person into your bed is the one most guaranteed to go wrong – and most likely to have negative effects on your relationship long-term. THE 12 REASONS WHY THREESOMES GO HORRIBLY WRONG Jealous The obvious, most glaring reason threesomes backfire is that couples who love each other usually have a hard time seeing their partners with someone else. Even if there is not a love thing going on between two of the people, most of us are pre
Post a Comment
Read more

Turtle penis? Why showers why growers?

I dated a man once where his penis when flaccid it did not just hang down like normal guys it practically went inside his body, it was basically just a head. He was not overweight and know it's just shrinking due to loss of blood and not actually going inside but  o ften, it almost didn't show at all, it looked like a baby mushroom. It did not affect any sexual performance on his part and it did grow. Although he was on the smaller side of things even erect about 5.5 inches.  Frankly the sex was fine.  My current boyfriend has the opposite problem. His flaccid penis is about 5 inches long, but when erect, he is still under 6 inches, so what's better?  When I first saw how long he was flaccid, I thought his penis wold be huge hard. I think this was more of a disappointment that it barley got bigger, than my ex who grew a lot. The classic "Turtle" I talked to other women about this and there is a derogatory term for this called the Turtl
2 comments
Read more

A woman’s guide to having threesome w/ two men

A woman’s guide to having threesome w/ two men I personally love two men pleasing me but the situation and men have to be right.  Most women have fantasized about having two men sexually satisfy her at the same time but not nearly as many women have actually experienced two men at once. The problem seems to be that most of the women interested in having a male-female-male threesome don’t know much about how to go about making this happen and what actually goes down in these situations. Being that I have had experience with a few of these I’d love to share with you the 1, 2, 3s of a male-female-male threesome.  One of The Biggest Misconceptions About Male-Female-Male Threesomes: Two men that are willing to share a woman sexually are bi or gay! – VERY FALSE! Male-female-male threesome is about two men that are interested/willing in pleasuring the same woman at once and that’s it. Yes, the two men will be in close proximity to one another while having sex with her but being nak
2 comments
Read more