Spice up the classic Missionary or... don't write it off all together.

This is an interesting fact. 37% of women chose the missionary position as their favorite, yet only 9% say it brings them to orgasm. Hmmm...

So why do we love missionary? It’s probably not because we’re lazy. For many, it’s associated with “making love” and we’ll sacrifice an orgasm to feel connected with our partners. That’s nice and all, but who says we can’t have both: the intimacy and the amazing orgasms? Below are three ways to step up the sensations during missionary, without sacrificing the connectivity.

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1: Make like a C.A.T.
No, don’t get down on all fours (that’s another position entirely), but rather, try the Coital Alignment Technique. Basically, the man raises himself up so that he’s closer to a 90 degree angle from the woman. The most important thing is to have either the shaft of his penis or his pubic mound (the area right above his cock) against your clitoris.

“[It’s] the riding high idea. He’s coming out of her further so his pelvic bone is stroking her clitoris. He’s not thrusting as deep so it’s more of a rocking motion between the two of you. This method isn't foolproof though. It doesn't work very well for people who like a lot of deep thrusting, especially women who are more responsive to pressure up near the cervix. If your man is big this won't be an issue. But small or even average size men won't give you any deep penetration with this position. It may be [better] using it at various points in the love making instead of something you do all the time.

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2: Add in a little “help.”
Bringing in a vibrator can really amp things up.

Either the woman can hold [the vibrator] against her clitoris or it can be a strap-on butterfly, where the little vibrating bullet is against her clitoris and it’s attached to her body so it maintains it’s position during intercourse. The man could even use it on you! And as he comes down and your pelvises meet it puts pressure on the vibrator so that the woman is getting lighter vibrations when he’s pulled back and heavier vibrations when he’s pressing down on the woman. I regularly use a vibrator during sex to make things easier.

[caption id="attachment_3130" align="alignnone" width="300"] Holding him[/caption]

Trojan and other condom companies are making vibrating cock rings now and there are plenty of them out there, it’s a small plastic ring that you put at the base of the penis and it has a little vibrating clitoral stimulator on it. I’ve had a lot of success with these vibrating ring,

3: Missionary modified.
You can still get a high level of intimacy, and increase your arousal, with some slight modifications to traditional missionary—leaving you emotionally and physically satisfied.

Side-by-side is a good position as well because the woman can grab the guy’s penis and use it sort of like a sex toy, This is one of my favorite things to do, rub him against me hold him in me and move him around.

[caption id="attachment_3131" align="alignnone" width="300"] Missionary can still be hot[/caption]

Find a position where his pubic mound brushes against your clitoris as he’s thrusting in and out. That might mean positioning yourself on the edge of the couch or the corner of the bed, where he’s standing up and you’re lying down on your back. Or where his feet are on the floor but he’s leaning over you.

[caption id="attachment_3132" align="alignnone" width="300"] Missionary is versatile[/caption]

While there still may be better positions for orgasming, like woman on top, or from behind with these “makeovers” you can turn almost any arm-leg-pelvic-area combo into one that works for you. It doesn't have to be a boring position, just communicate to a guy, sometimes guys tend to be a little routine and besides you can always once worked up ask him to bend you over and fuck your brains out.

[caption id="attachment_3133" align="alignnone" width="300"] when you are ready, then you can have him finish you from behind.[/caption]