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How to use your vibrator seriously I get asked this all the time.

If you are serious about experiencing as much pleasure as possible, then you absolutely must try using a vibrator to get yourself off. I love a good dildo but a vibrator can also provide some intense orgasms. Heck, that’s what we’re all about. But before jumping ahead and using one. Here are some simple tips to make sure you get the most out of it.
I love my rabbit vibrator

MAKE A GOOD CHOICE

If you are serious about your pleasure, then I advise that you get a more ‘upmarket’ or expensive and well reviewed vibrator, like the Rabbit or the Hitachi Magic Wand. I prefer the rabbit with the rotating pulsing beads since it I get a vaginal orgasm and clitoral one at the same time. Most of the better vibrators have numerous settings that range from very soft and gentle vibrations, right up to intense and powerful vibrations, allowing you to change speeds to suit your needs. You may think that it’s smart to get a cheap vibrator even if it only has one setting, but I strongly advise against this as these cheaper vibrators are often far too intense and not even that enjoyable.
Most sex shops stock a range of vibrators, but you may be surprised to see how expensive some of them are. Even some of the lower end vibrators can set you back quite a bit.
Don’t forget to check online for vibrators. You may find them to be cheaper and most vendors offer very discreet shipping.

GETTING READY

Once you have a quality vibrator, then it’s time for some alone time! I always recommend that you first try using it in your bedroom when you won’t be disturbed. Locking the door is not enough though. Often vibrators can be quite loud and others in your house may hear it vibrating through the wall/ceiling. So I strongly advise that you make sure there is no one else in the house when using it the first time.
I always advise a long and slow build up to getting sexual (even if you are just using a vibrator). This build up almost always leads you to you having a longer and stronger orgasms. So you may want to start with having a nice relaxing bath and then afterwards lying down on your bed and slowing massaging yourself, even fingering yourself a little bit.

TIME TO START USING THE VIBRATOR

After warming yourself up, it’s time to get your vibrator out and turn it on. Quickly examine the controls to see how to speed up and slow down the vibrations. Once you are comfortable with the controls, start off by slowly dragging it over your body, making sure to pay attention to all your erogenous zones. After a minute or 2 of this, lower the vibrator towards your crotch.
Slowly brush it across your inner thighs and over your labia and clitoris. You should start to feel yourself getting wetter. But don’t focus only on your clitoris just yet. Keep teasing yourself to build up the tension.
After teasing yourself for a little bit, start to slowly push it in and out of your vagina. Angle it so that you hit your most pleasurable spots. Just doing this is enough for a lot of girls to orgasm and cum really hard.
But if you have managed to hold back this long and not orgasm, then it’s time to ramp it up a bit! While using one hand to push the vibrator in and out of your vagina, use your other hand to stimulate your clitoris. Combining these 2 actions is usually enough to make you cum really hard and intensely. Some students have even reported squirting for the first time when doing this. (If you are using a vibrator like the Rabbit, then the ‘rabbit ears’ and ‘nose’ will stimulate your clit for your leaving your other hand free or if you have a partner to help even better).
The key to super intense orgasms and squirting when using a vibrator is a slow and steady build up. When you do finally cum after this build up, you will gush!

DON’T FORGET TO EXPERIMENT

If you are not sure how to properly pleasure yourself when using a vibrator, then I highly recommend experimenting a bit. Try fingering yourself a few times first to find out what feels best and what’s not so enjoyable. Then once you know what you like and enjoy, try doing it using a vibrator. This video I put together will show exactly how to masturbate and finger yourself properly for maximum pleasure.

SOME WARNINGS ABOUT VIBRATORS

Vibrators are wonderful things. That’s obvious. They are so good in fact that you might even fall in love with yours. Seriously! However if you use a vibrator every night, you may eventually develop a dependency on it. Using it every night can desensitise you to the point where you can only orgasm when you use one. This can ruin your sex life, and make it harder for you to climax when your man penetrates you.
So I strongly advise you to use your vibrator with moderation.

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