Top 10: Things my women readers want in a man's body

We did a survey on Top 10 sexy things women like about men that excluded the body, and some of you cheated so here are the results on what us girls wants in our mans body and some excerpts from emails.



10- Sharply shaped shoulders

Of over 250 emails i received, a vast majority had a lot to say about shoulders. They like it when a man has well-defined, broad shoulders because they're a sign of strength and masculinity.

One woman wrote, "I love when a man moves his shoulders and you're able to see the (muscle) definition." Another gal added, "Running my fingers across broad, lean ones excites me immeasurably. That's why I love giving my boyfriend massages in this area." So it's time to get to work at the gym, and as the list goes on, you'll quickly come to the same realization yourself.

9- Chiseled chest

All men love a nice pair of breasts -- real or fake. As long as they look good, we're not complaining. Well, women have the same requirements (minus that whole fake thing though).

Perfect pecs are part of the whole image women have conjured up in their fantasy-filled daydreams. Most ladies said that they like being able to envision what a man's chest looks like under his clothes. The way a sweater or chemise falls on a man's body, they profess, reveals a lot about what's under there.

How fair is that? We get to have those push-up, water-filled, padded bras that create a complete illusion of what's really under there. And what do we have? I think Seinfeld 's Kramer was on the right track with the man's bra -- or should I say The Bro ?



8- Bulging biceps

Come on... you knew it was coming. Big, well-defined biceps don't just signify strength, they also reveal that you're taking good care of your body. And if there's one thing women love, it's a man who takes care of things.

As with the chest, women love when they're able to get a hint of a man's biceps either through his sweater or when he wears a T-shirt and they can see the start of the rippling muscle (my readers words, not mine).

It also doesn't hurt when guys are able to lift them up and maneuver their bodies effortlessly when they're engaging in crazy "slam you up against the wall" sex. So I guess that mom was just kidding all those times she told us that it's what's on the inside that counts. Real funny.



7- Luscious lips

Oh my, what big ass lips you have! That's right guys; Women like full mouths on men not just for their aesthetic appeal, but for those more intimate things we can do with them.

One woman wrote, "I love to suck on a man's thick lips until they're swollen and then I like to rub ice on them while I kiss them."

But women were very diverse in the lip department. Some liked only thick bottom lips and some even preferred thinner lips. Perhaps that's because they all prefer the...

6- Tantalizing tongue

If there's one talent that women appreciate immensely, it's a man's ability to use his tongue as though it were a saliva-producing penis with an attitude. Lots of women were quick to point out that the tongue is the strongest muscle in the body, but that is highly debatable.

Although some women chose the tongue for those intimate kissing sessions, most specified that it was because they enjoyed being kissed "down there." Down where? Can u lingis?

Everything from using the tip of your tongue to tease the clitoris to using your entire tongue to lick the vagina from top to bottom was mentioned here. Even penetrating her with it was quite popular. women went on and on about how a good tongue was essential in a long term relationship and her sexual satisfaction. and you men thought it was about your cock... guess our readers are banking on your pussy eating skills for the long haul.



5- Hygienic hands

"One thing I love about my boyfriend are his big, thick, clean hands." Until I heard the word hands , I could've sworn that you girls where talking about something else. Actually the word "clean" threw me off somewhat. Do most men have filthy hands? Non-the-less you girls love hands!

Another surveyed woman mentioned that a man's hands say a lot about him. Come on , I thought, that's just a myth . But she was referring to other things like what he does for a living and what he emits about himself to the world.

A more interesting woman stated that she loves sucking on a man's fingers and mimicking fellatio. So keep those hands in tiptop shape; you never who might want to wrap their mouth around those fingers.

4- Honed hips

Whereas in this day and age, the smaller a woman's hips the better, surprisingly enough, women also like holding on to mens hips when having sex. They love the fact that mens hips are narrow. I think they're just jealous though.

"I find that hollow area under the ribs that ends above the hipbones irresistible. A woman's hands belong there." I couldn't agree more.

3- Awesome abs

It's absolutely no surprise that women love that washboard stomach. The ripples are the epitome of what a man is defined by. Men should strive for that six-pack, and no, I'm not referring to Budweiser.

Some women didn't necessarily require rock hard abs, but a flat stomach was important just the same. "No woman wants to have sex with a man who has to physically lift his belly in order to put it in." Wow, I never knew that that was possible!



2- Primped penis

Ah finally, they got to my personal favorite it's mad the list farther don that I thought And although you ladies didn't specify that size matters explicitly, you did say that you required a "good size." "More on the larger side". Yeah, good and plenty...

But more importantly, a lot of women mentioned that a properly groomed groin area was very important. "I don't like spitting out curly, coarse hair when I'm in the middle of a fellatio marathon." So break out the razors, wax and depilatories, it's time to make a forest clearing.

Other things that women mentioned:

Proportionate skin color (body to penis)
Not too veiny
Circumcised
Uncircumcised
Not too small
Not too big
Thick (Just about every email mentioned they liked them thicker)
Nice smell

1- Buff butt

I guess the one thing this survey goes to show is that women are not that much different from men.

Some women wrote that they love those "half-moon" butts, while others preferred the "slightly curvaceous" ones. "It's usually the athletic guys that have the nicest butts... oh and Brad Pitt." I knew a reader or two or four...was bound to throw that one in.