Speaking of sex toys

Since we are on the sex toy topic I got a new vibrator to play with and it's pretty cool but there are some drawbacks. If you are a girth girl this one may not appeal to you.

I was eager to try it out, except I was bitterly disappointed. The lack of girth except for on the rotating ball-bearings, which sits outside the vagina and gives no pleasure what so ever. the whole idea of this toy rocks but for me I wold have expected it to swell larger in size.

The rotation to the head, didn't seem to happen as I seemed to clamp my vagina around it a bit making it ineffective. Usually I can 'get off' on the clit stimulation alone so I was hopeful that the shaft issues wouldn't matter... nope. Disappointed there too.



None of the vibration settings seemed to light my fire in any way shape or form, and from my once trusty Wave that can get me off within a couple of minutes... 10 minutes later with the Rotating One, I was more frustrated than when I started. I gave up and decided to try again at a later time only to have the same problem again.  Now I have a very aesthetically pleasing vibrator but it gave me no joy.

My friend Carol though had some thoughts also

Carol's thoughts - 

This toy is aimed at length and girth so I judged it on those merrits. The Expanding One has been created by ‘The O Team’ which is a variety of 8 women who helped design this range of toys I found out. It's 6.2 inches long which seems slighty above average in length to most men, so I am not sure I would call it huge. Its 4.7 inches in girth and again that's larger than most men I'd say but not really big. My husband is on the small to average size of things and when I picked this up I didn't jump back and think "wow big". I have been with men larger and have larger toys. 

The shaft of the toy has airbag technology used to expand the girth with inflation. There are three main rings around the shaft which inflate to three different patterns. The fourth inflates the toy fully. Made of silicone, this toy picks up lint very easily and has a seam running longways over the shaft and ears. You may need to use a lot of water based lubricant with this toy. When unexpanded, the shaft has a rippled feeling for the top 4.5 inches. Near the rabbit ears it has a larger solid girth. I found the girth not as disappointing as Jane since I am used to my smaller husband but for some reason it was very tricky for the rabbit ears to reach my clit without causing pain. 

The rabbit ears have seven speeds. The first three settings are constant with an increase in each of vibrations, the fourth setting is a pulse, fifth gradual, sixth longer pulse, seventh morse code. There is a noticeable increase in noise level as the speed increases. The clitoral stimulator isn’t flexible except the actual ‘ears’ section so it is tricky to adjust to reach the right spot. The ears and inflation can be used separately controlled by two buttons. The ‘S’ button inflates the toy through the different modes. For a quick release of the inflation there is a pink button situated above. 

The very base of the unit is the best part as it's much thicker

I find this button quite hard to press. To activate the ears and modes press the zigzag pattern button and scroll through. The Expanding One is not waterproof so should be cleaned carefully with antibacterial spray and a lint free cloth or antibacterial wipes. Overall a good toy for those who love to be filled, the expanding part was fun to use and gave a fun sensation. however it was very noisy and overall not exactly what I would have expected.